Ever wish you could understand women?
Here are some of the secrets of the female psyche revealed! It’s all based on real research, so listen in, guys!
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By the time women are in midlife, sometimes the result can translate as women being closed off to you. Women can feel guarded or scared, or so accomplished and self-assured they don’t need you. They can also be complicated, sophisticated, and “evolved.” Some are so horny you don’t know what to do with them!
Still feeling compelled to rescue a woman?
Maybe you do have that rescuer mentality still. Some men at this point are TIRED of having to be the pursuer it can be tough figuring out what to make of really aggressive women.
There are still good women who do understand how you’re made and want to have great relationships with YOU and men like you!
Triangular Theory of Love
Robert Sternberg’s theory posits three elements of love: passion, intimacy, and commitment from which he defines all types of love. In the middle of this triangle, if everything is balanced, there’s consummate love.
Keys to Understanding Women:
- Every woman wants to be indispensible: she wants to occupy a place in your heart and mind and life that no other woman does or has or can…or ever will! She must be special. Essentially, she wants to be that consummate love!
2. Every woman asks these two related underlying questions. She carries them around inside her even when she doesn’t know it. (And she’d like to experience a yes about 80% of the time with you.)
Do you care about how I feel? And are you willing to do something about it?
The key: be sure you know HOW to give her the YES she needs. This includes resisting the urge to “fix it!” SO:
3. Practice empathy even at the elementary level: correctly identify HER emotions.
4. Be willing to do the “something about it” in the way SHE understands.
Plus the BURNING QUESTION answered!
Notice you’re choosing the same type of woman over and over? Want help figuring out what to adjust in order to have truly happy relationship?
CALL ME. 513-818-2024. Let’s get to work putting your understanding of women into ACTION!